..Claudia Opdenkelder, the President of CougarLife.com, often says in interviews that a cougar is nothing more than a 35+ year old woman, who is smart, independent and simply enjoys the company of younger men. However, there are people out there that think this term is degrading to women because people perceive a cougar as an older women on the prowl at bars and clubs.
...jeng..jeng..jeng....tajuk panas dah sampai...u have to know that i'm writing from the perspective of a married person...n...cougarism utk married person....hehe..
..ada kawan hamba bertanya..."what's yr opinion sayyy...if i suddenly decide 2 hit cougartown"..jawab i "really...y??"..."lonely lar" jawabnyer....hmmmm..yarr..d attraction to those charming fresh-looking 6-pack abs! The point is...if u ask me, it is never my policy to stop people from seeking happiness. Question is...is dis the kind of happiness dat u're looking for?? Especially if u're married to some1 gr8 of whom u've regarded s yr'best friend'? D 1 dat u kno u can count on bila rambut dah 'platinum' & more than 50% of the skin dah jadi cam sayur jeruk Korea tuh..hehe...now pun dah 'platinum'...hahah....tapi boleh kaler kan....
Based on my observation...kebanyakan d so-called 'love' nowadays tahan dlm 5 thn je..max! Jgn marah eh...tgk stats utk divorce jer cukup larr... 1st kita kawen, cakap nak kawen pasal dia lar lover, dia lar buah hati, dia lar best friend...etc..etc.. Tapi...5 years & 2 kids later, dia lar the 1st name on our 'black list'!!! Kenapa mcm tu ekk...fast forward, katakanlah kita ok, pastuh anak2 dah besar...rumah besar, keinginan pun dah makin besar,tapi..perasaan dah makin kecik....c 'dia' dah makin hambar..dah x best.. Dulu..semua kita ckp..dia 'yes' kan jer...skarang ckp sikit dia kata kita membebel!! Hhmmm...mcm mana nih...so, kita pun malas nak gaduh, Hit Plan B,trus taruk gear 5....a drive to d infamous Cougartown... On d road to Cougartown, ada lar plak 'seseorang' hitchhiker yg nak tumpang keta kita..menarik jgk & sgt berbudi bahasa...lantas kita pun kasik dia tumpang..on d way, adalarr citer-citer sikit...tp yg amazing nyer...dia lebih byk tanya pasal kita. Very the very attentive gitewww! n d fact dat Mr. Hitchhiker telah menyebabkan segerombolan rama-rama bersarang di dalam perut kita serta menyebabkan sesuatu perasaan yg x tentu harah.. Hmmmm...60% dah confirm sangkut lar kan....n the rest is history...
i x leh nak tetapkan ending 2 dis story..sooo...OK...i nak kasik points larr better, so that u can choose the ending....coz our life, our choice kan...u choose ehh....
a) upgrade relationship dgn Mr. Hitchhiker ke tahap yg lbh serius, 'undercover' dgn spouse sampai..sammmpaii...sammpaiiiii...tu lar kannn...sampai bila ekkkk???
b) come clean with yr spouse...Ckp kat dia dah 2 late!!!..pasal ego dia pun lagi tinggi dari KLCC..lawan-lawan-lawan, kluar umah, pasal salah dia jgk kan..sapa suh 'mundane' sgt..tul x??? tunggu paper dari court jer larrrr...& sprint in2 d big arms of Mr. Hitchhiker.
c) come clean wth yr spouse...ckp dah wat mistake..pikir pendek..but not 2 far lagi..baru 50 meter jer...masih boleh reverse...mintak maaf (provided c dia maafkan)..move on & start fresh all over again dgn c dia....hmmmm...n d keywords are to "start fresh all over again". Yarrrrr....bukan stakat move on jerrrr!!! Faham???
d) "Sorry Mr. Hitchhike...u swept me off my feet...n i'm so blessed to have known u for this long...u're a gr8 person..but i live in reality n in my world, i've got my family n they need me & our relationship is heading nowhere... Please forgive me.." n u go back to your don't-hv-a-clue-on-wat's-goin-on spouse (coz u x ckp dgn dia) & pretend like nothing ever happen, back to the Kingdom of Madness & Mundanity coz u don't have balls to come clean!!
Something to think about though...kebanyakan (based on yg i dgr2 lar..) yg memilih utk ber'affair' cougar-way is because they have this quest for d so-called 'fresh meat' n that butterfly-in-d-stomach feeling...2 feel u're cared for, loved by, being thought about constantly....orrrr bahasa pasar rasa cam saham tinggi lagi lar kan...hehe...Masaelahnya...berapa lama rama-rama dalam perut boleh tahan??? Eventually...they will die too & so are u!! so...knapa nak complic8 life yg simple & beautiful nihh...i tau kadang2 kita rasa tertekan...tapi mulut tu boleh lak digunakan untuk mengumpat & mengata benda2 lain...pastuh....apa hal lak x leh guna utk bersemuka & berbalas pantun dengan c dia??? Gain d courage people!!! If there's a will, there's a HIGHWAY!!!! On a different note, there's nothing wrong with being a citizen of Cougartown if you're single mingle or soon to be single!!!...hehe...ENJOY THIS LIFE...COZ U ONLY GOT 1!!!
Peace!
